The root cause of this issue is the shaping of attitude right from childhood. While women are pained at the sight of their sons performing household chores, they rejoice at training their daughters in house-keeping. While a man helping his wife at home is mocked at, a woman sharing the financial burden of her husband is not given any additional credit. On the contrary, she is under pressure and constant scrutiny to balance her professional and personal life. One wrong step in her personal life, she is accused of having sacrificed the family at the altar of her career. With such double standards prevalent in society, we have a long way to go before we practise gender equality in its true spirit.
The real issue is not about women working or staying at home. It is about the mentality of a majority of men who just don’t want to soil their hands with household chores. They enjoy life when their wives toil through day and night to ensure a comfortable living along with supplementing the household income. The need of the hour is not praise or due credit for women but a change in the mental make-up of comfort-seeking men. There should be a balanced distribution of labour in the families where women go out to work. If the gender divide can weaken at workplace, why not at home?
Ms Pentareddy portrays the grim reality encountered by women in the middle and the lower-middle class nuclear families. Our mother is our first source of inspiration, a fact that we often fail to recognise. Behind every successful individual, there is indeed a mother who has selflessly sacrificed her time or career to pave the way for her children’s future.
There is nothing big one needs to do to acknowledge the importance of a mother. An undisturbed chat over a cup of coffee, an evening walk once in a while, a hearty wish on her birthday, etc., are all deeds that will keep her going.
